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An expat left-brained Kiwi in right-brained New York City

Second gear starts and the art of the zipper merge

So I hope I didn’t cause too much concern with my first post. I LOVED Shanghai. It felt like the New York of China: fashion, art, culture, gentrified, ultramod, industrial, fusion, all at once. The energy of the city is palpable. One of the side effects of the “one child per couple” policy is that everyone is pushing for themselves, often with their whole family behind them. That creates velocity. Career velocity, social standing velocity, growth, and inertia. It seems, with the Chinese educational system focused on hard sciences and exams that it must be very difficult to be creative in Shanghai. I think we’ll see a surge in the “creative class” in China in the next 10 years. This will be an exciting time. I could live in Shanghai. I’d love to live in Shanghai, but I’d need to focus a LOT on language skills first and reading would be very difficult for me.

Ok, so the next big observation from me is that everyone drives a stick. That is, they all have manual transmissions: cars, buses, trucks. In the US, I don’t know anyone who drives a stick, unless they own a Porsche or a wee VW Golf. It means cars “leap off the line” faster than the US. This leads me to another curious observation: most of the cars started off in second gear. That thunking noise a car makes when it’s in too high a gear for “take off”. That’s the noise all cars make in China. I can drive a stick, but I don’t (typical lazy American I guess). I was always taught to work my way comfortably up through the gear box, focusing on creating the smoothest ride for my passengers. I suspect that in China it’s about keeping rpm low and conserving a little gas by starting in 2nd.

Sometimes in the US, I am very frustrated by the arrogant, selfish, pushy a$$wipes who push in front of people during a zipper merge. You know who you are, the people who push in at the head of the queue, instead of “waiting your turn”. Many people do it, but many people don’t. It’s not polite. In China, it’s the opposite. I wonder if it’s a side effect of the only child policy again. When the light changes you go, you push towards the oncoming traffic, if you can inch in front, then you win. The only thing is that EVERYONE is doing the same. The result: it works. It is NOT how I expect traffic or people to behave, but gosh darn it, if everyone is pushing, selfish people, then it just works.

An example, I have been patiently awaiting the cross signal at an intersection. The wee green man appears and I begin to cross, past half way, almost to the other side and a bus appears, with it’s indicator on. It is going to make the “right turn on red”. In my brain, the equation is simple: I have the green man, the bus has a red light, the bus will stop and give way to the pedestrian. In Shanghai however, my instincts couldn’t be more wrong. The bus HONKS at me and my son. Not slowing from 40kph it attacks the corner expecting people to scatter out of it’s way. Which of course we do. And then it dawns on me. I was probably a split second later than everyone else in the cross walk, but I did it, I got out of the way. It works, I’m ok, rattled, but ok. The bus remains on time, and the world keeps on turning, turning, into the future. It’s a shift of my perception that is required. In the 2 weeks I was there I had already made the shift. I was no longer surprised by mopeds, bikes, or buses crashing red lights. I just dealt with it.

Another great example is when the light turn. The traffic lights warn you that they are going to change. The orange appears to let you know the green is coming as well as the red. This means people can start sooner, and push into the intersection. In the US, when 4 lanes of straight through traffic are lined up and someon is turning across traffic, they might be cheeky enough to push one car in front of them. In Shanghai, 12 cars pushed through the four lanes of oncoming traffic, all as a perfect zipper, first a turning car weaves itself through, then 4 oncoming cars, etc … people honked all the time, but really to say “here I am watch out”, not “get the frick out of my way you moron”.

The final thought on zippers and second gear is this: In the US and most of the western world, the horn is for admonishment. When we toot, we are saying “you idiot!”, in Shanghai, the horn is to announce your presence. Like the “firing a gun at every intersection” of the early days of the horseless carriage.

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Shanghai, first impressions

First, The one thing that sums things up for me is this: imagine a country peopled entirely by only children, now multiple by 1 billion. This is my big observation.  The impact that this small, often overlooked effect has on China is incredible to see.

So as many of you know I just returned from 2 weeks in Shanghai, China. Despite being married for more than 9 years, I had never been to the country my wife grew up in. Sharine moved to the US when she was 17, and her immediate family is all in the US, while my immediate family is in New Zealand. Whenever we went somewhere we went to NZ, grandkids visiting grandparents, engagement, etc… all to New Zealand. This was my first trip to China, but not my first trip to Asia. As many of you also know I had spent a short business trip visiting Kuala Lumpur, Jakarta, and Tokyo. They were much more like I expected. Malaysia was a fantastic polyglot of cultures and people. Jakarta was an oft savage, close to third world experience. Tokyo was a refined, polite, deferential fashion leader that defined what the east is in the eyes of the west. Shanghai, is as once all of those things and none of them.

We did not go to China as American tourists. We went as “local tourists”. My wife had several friends and family members in Shanghai who offer to let us stay. Veronica and her family magnanimously offered to live at their parents house while we stayed out in their place on Xei Tu Road, in South Shanghai (no, not at all like South Los Angeles). We arrived tired but excited from a United flight that connected through Chicago mid-afternoon. The smog was palpable. I assumed the visibility was limited to about 1/2 a mile due to the industrial areas out by the airport, oh how wrong I was. As we drove into the city across 15 story fly-away road bridges and massive centrally suspended bridges it dawned on me that this kind of air was normal, and my first observation was the cab in front of us had a HOOTERS ad in the window, not that I notice these things. It was hot, high 90’s, sticky, and smoky. As I glanced out the window I spotted a 300 mph maglev speeding past us to the city. Hunter was so excited he squealed!

When we arrived we discovered that Veronica’s place was a 6th floor walkup, accessed through a rough hewn concrete staircase, with a security gate that rivaled a Federal penitentiary (yes I’ve been in one, during my work with DHS). My mind was reeling as we lugged out overstuffed suitcases up the 12 flights of 8 stairs. Each stair was stamped with multiple blocks of characters and numbers: advertisements for the contractors who fixed things in the building. When we finally climbed the stairs to the 6th floor we were greeted with another gate, of the same quality and strength as the one below, then a beautiful wooden door, with a 3 bolt deadlock. My initial reaction was, as you can imagine: concern. Why did they need this kind of security? What kind of neighborhood where we in? How would I cope with little to no Mandarin. I was truly giving up any semblance of control.

wontons_wrappedVeronica was fantastic, showed us all around, opened her home to us, stayed to help us make wontons and cook them up for a feast the first night (one feast of many!). Her house was not really a home as I would have defined it. They lived in this apartment during the week, basically just eating, sleeping, and doing homework. During the weekends they go to live with their parents, in a much nicer, homelier apartment a bit further out of the city. According to my Lonely Planet guide, the road we were on wasn’t even on the Shanghai map! I was worried this little place was waaaaay out in the city burbs. I didn’t realize how small Shanghai is (despite being home to 17 million people).

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Shanghai, China

Well, it’s almost here. Our family trip to Shanghai will begin on Wednesday morning 8am. A quick hop to Chicago, then a long flight to Shanghai. I am so excited to finally see where Sharine grew up. Understand a little more about China and see some amazing things. I can’t wait for real Shanghai food. Out itenary so far is roughly:

The plan is coming together now.  My cousin’s daughter will get the trip tickets for us today or tomorrow.  Hopefully we we can get them on the dates we had requested. 
 
5/7 (Th) – arrival
5/8 (Fri) – Qi Bao, also to see my cousin (maybe) and Connie’s parents (for sure)
5/9  (Sat) – with Veronica to see Yu Yuan Garden and market.  Evening to Bund or Heng Shan Lu.
5/10 (Sun) – cemetary then visit grandfather and have dinner with aunt and maybe some cousins
 
5/11 (Mon) – Su Zhou Trip
5/12 (Tu) – open
5/13 (Wed) – Hang Zhou Trip
5/14 (Th) – Wu Zhen Trip
5/15 (Fri) – open, Maybe have dinner with Kirk in the evening.
5/16 (Sat) – Pu Dong and Da Guan Yuan Trip
5/17 (Sun) – Nan Xiang Old Town Trip
 
5/18 (Mon) – open
5/19 (Tu) – open
 
Open:
People Sqaure and Xin Tian Di
Pu Dong, Pearl Tower, Bund, Nan Jing Road shopping street
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5/7 (Th) – arrival

5/8 (Fri) – Qi Bao, also to see my cousin (maybe) and Connie’s parents (for sure)

5/9  (Sat) – with Veronica to see Yu Yuan Garden and market.  Evening to Bund or Heng Shan Lu.

5/10 (Sun) – cemetary then visit grandfather and have dinner with aunt and maybe some cousins

5/11 (Mon) – Su Zhou Trip

5/12 (Tu) – open

5/13 (Wed) – Hang Zhou Trip

5/14 (Th) – Wu Zhen Trip

5/15 (Fri) – open, Maybe have dinner with Kirk in the evening.

5/16 (Sat) – Pu Dong and Da Guan Yuan Trip

5/17 (Sun) – Nan Xiang Old Town Trip

5/18 (Mon) – open

5/19 (Tu) – open

Open:

People Sqaure and Xin Tian Di

Pu Dong, Pearl Tower, Bund, Nan Jing Road shopping street

My Mandarin is atrocious (not even passable other than hello) but I am almost buzzing with excitement. I remember my brief time in Kuala Lumpur, Jakarta, and Toky fondly. Shanghai awaits! I am not sure I’ll have internet connections in China so you may have to wait for photos and blog posts, but rest assured they will be on their way!

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